tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post1133082447209719453..comments2023-07-04T06:56:10.259-04:00Comments on Accidentally by Design: PYHO: Real EmotionsMaggie S.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10730118801391139440noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-75677524572857030892011-05-11T16:42:18.144-04:002011-05-11T16:42:18.144-04:00I am certainly not knocking your decision not to g...I am certainly not knocking your decision not to go on antidepressants, but as someone who knows where you are coming from, can I share a little information?<br /><br />I went on Paxil in college, and I had the "no sads but no happies either" and when I went off them I swore "never again!" Skipping the middle of the story, I did end up on them again but I told my doctor "No Paxil!" I am now on Pristiq and it has made all the difference! I still feel all my emotions (happy and sad), but the sads are not unbearable anymore.<br /><br />The doctor (love her!) explained that Paxil & Prozac & other drugs in that "family" are mood stabilizers -- they bring up your lows but they also bring down your highs. Hence the lack of happiness and in my case, zombie like state. Pristiq & other drugs in its "family" are mood elevators - they bring up your lows...and that's it. Paxil & Prozac are good for people who have manic episodes as well as depressive episodes. If you aren't having manic episodes, that may not be the family of drugs for you. Something from another family of drugs (such as Pristiq) may work better for you.<br /><br />My point is just that there are options for anti-depressants, and just because one family of drugs didn't work for you doesn't mean another won't. If you ever get to the point where you really feel the need for medication to help you get through it, please consider talking to your doctor about something other than what you were on before.<br /><br />And please don't think I am trying to talk you into going on medication. I admire if you can handle it on your own (I wanted to also and was very hesitant to go back on medication), but if you do decide you need help, please know that not every anti-depressant will have the same effect on you that the last one did. You may be able to find something that works better for you.<br /><br />Good luck and hugs to you!Heather Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16057787714238622308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-87373566260553302252011-05-10T20:51:01.747-04:002011-05-10T20:51:01.747-04:00Before you turn to drugs - read the Amen Solution....Before you turn to drugs - read the Amen Solution. No it's not about praying for results (although I'd do that too) but he talks about how you should eat for a healthy brain. I got it from our library - there were 45 others waiting for the book when I returned it. Very sound information!Leslie, The Cleaning Coachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03831664193496308706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-87755511237819985232011-05-10T14:37:05.112-04:002011-05-10T14:37:05.112-04:00I wish you luck in your decision. I know at one ti...I wish you luck in your decision. I know at one time antidepressants were a literal lifesaver for me. We were looking to buy our first out, my brother in law would not move out of our house until the last minute. We would be looking at houses that had HOLES in the roof and I would sob if we didn't put an offer on it. For that time, for me they were helpful. <br /><br />Having your best friend move closer will be a blessing for you. Something about a best friend that helps to make ones world a little bit brighter. <br /><br />Thank you for stopping by my blog today. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-82043740191252292272011-05-07T21:36:03.711-04:002011-05-07T21:36:03.711-04:00Maggie, do whatever you need to do be healthy...an...Maggie, do whatever you need to do be healthy...and cope...and take care of your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-35053046910301289732011-05-05T06:21:56.399-04:002011-05-05T06:21:56.399-04:00Maggie, I'm definitely gonna pray for less str...Maggie, I'm definitely gonna pray for less stress in your life. And maybe once you make the bracelet you can send me one too? :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04370776219957257511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-2512573564057181732011-05-05T00:17:09.962-04:002011-05-05T00:17:09.962-04:00This post is so dead on!! I have struggled with my...This post is so dead on!! I have struggled with my emotions and my relationship with God. I know he made me and this is a fallen world. I hate that i feel the way I feel sometimes. I just want to be joyful all the time. I want to raise my hands to heaven and revel in his Glory. But then I just don't feel like it. I have days where I could care less and it sucks. <br /><br />I hate it. I hate that I have days where the world is terrible and days where I am singing his praises from the rooftops. I want to be praising him all the time, no matter what. <br /><br />I am praying for you!! I pray that God brings you closer to him and teaches you some amazing things about his grace and mercy through this time. <br /><br />(And my PYHO blog is not in my google profile. It's www.AnniesHeart.com)Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16483641233177919179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-84368757134277010902011-05-04T21:28:38.606-04:002011-05-04T21:28:38.606-04:00Stress is so hard. Sometimes we don't realize...Stress is so hard. Sometimes we don't realize how stressed we are until we crack.<br /><br />Enjoy your friend this weekend and you will figure this out. Friends are good like that.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09224711908880146896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-52825530564701946512011-05-04T17:41:56.136-04:002011-05-04T17:41:56.136-04:00I agree that it is none of anyone's business w...I agree that it is none of anyone's business what is best for a person. I hope you choose the right path for you. I've heard so many close family and friends rave about antidepressants that helped them. But you have a great point about wanting to feel all of your feelings.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01564542013071462911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-10811534386432214322011-05-04T17:29:21.682-04:002011-05-04T17:29:21.682-04:00Stress can be an evil beast. I admire you for try...Stress can be an evil beast. I admire you for trying to face it so boldly and making yourself better in the process. Much luck to you as you press along and figure out what works best for your situation. Great PYHOMrs Montoyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01211817860547896809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-38865388249751102352011-05-04T17:17:03.844-04:002011-05-04T17:17:03.844-04:00I was on Zoloft after Bud was born and I stopped f...I was on Zoloft after Bud was born and I stopped for that very reason. I wasn't anxious all the time, but I one morning I woke up and I realized I wasn't anything. I was just there. I think there are really good reasons to take it, and really good reasons not to. I'm glad you know the difference.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16666910475457302786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-75766129814920707352011-05-04T17:06:12.902-04:002011-05-04T17:06:12.902-04:00I am sure you will figure out what will work best ...I am sure you will figure out what will work best for you. <br /><br />So exciting to have your friend live closer!amygrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10655920157645555504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-21820154972004884872011-05-04T15:51:28.770-04:002011-05-04T15:51:28.770-04:00Listening to your emotions and understanding why y...Listening to your emotions and understanding why you feel the way you do isn't always easy. But with God leading the way, you are sure to become the person He wants you to be!Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11023363765029452006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-41235437672673946882011-05-04T14:51:01.521-04:002011-05-04T14:51:01.521-04:00So sorry you are going through this. Change is so...So sorry you are going through this. Change is so hard and emotions can really grab hold of you in unexpected (sometimes unwanted) ways.Rach (DonutsMama)https://www.blogger.com/profile/14029074046922966097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3466749786412873258.post-3702614872488018352011-05-04T14:37:59.630-04:002011-05-04T14:37:59.630-04:00That would be so exciting if your friend moved clo...That would be so exciting if your friend moved closer!<br /><br />Good luck making the right decision with the meds!Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06811697675090627618noreply@blogger.com